An Air Traffic Controller for 18 years and a Chaplain's Assistant (Religious Program Specialist) for two years, she is quick to say her role as a mother is the most rewarding and definitely the most demanding position she has ever held.
Adjusting to civilian life wasn't easy. She jumped right into the full-time motherhood role after retirement without missing a beat. "I was literally slapped in the face with the reality of Motherhood."
LaVender's husband, Kevin, plays a major part in We Snap In Silence with his 'old school' ways and ideas on marriage and the roles of wife and husband. She refers to him as her 'high maintenance' hubby and thanks him continually for agreeing to place their marriage in print.
There's another name LaVender has for Kevin, but you'll have to read the book to find out his 'aka' identity.Kevin and LaVender have two sons referred to as Firstborn and Secondborn. Both boys were homeschooled in their early years, yet Firstborn began public school in his ninth grade year and Secondborn in his seventh grade year.
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